How To Use A Vibrator: Boosting Wellness & Satisfaction

What Do Vibrators Accomplish?

Beyond their buzz, vibrators can actually support your sexual wellness. They help increase blood flow to the genitals, enhance sexual health, deliver efficient stimulation, and offer creative pleasure options for individuals and couples. Vibrators can also be incredibly valuable for people with disabilities or sexual health challenges.

Sex Toy Material Myths

The internet is full of misinformation, and that includes sex toys. Finding accurate, science-based information about body-safe materials is harder than many expect. A lot of websites and even so-called sex toy experts continue to spread outdated myths that have become widely accepted as truth.

This misinformation is often repeated by popular media sources, causing many consumers to be misled. You deserve clear, factual information—not fear-based or hype-driven myths.

One of the most common myths is the idea that consumers should only buy toys made of “medical-grade silicone.” The truth?

• Most sex toys are not manufactured with silicone meant for medical implants.
• Medical-grade silicone is not a special type of silicone—it only means it has been tested for medical procedures.
• Sex toys do not require medical-grade certification to be body-safe.

What truly matters is how the silicone is cured. This determines purity and overall safety. Consumers looking for the safest options should focus on:

• Platinum-cured silicone
• Post-baked peroxide-cured silicone

Unfortunately, most manufacturers do not publicly share their curing methods, but we’ve listed helpful guides below to help you make informed decisions.

Helpful Vibrator Guides

• Learn the facts about silicone: Silicone Sex Toys: Is Yours Real & Safe?
• Explore safe materials: Body Safe Sex Toy Guide
• Discover the truth behind myths: Vibrator Myths Guide
• Need help choosing? Read: How To Choose A Vibrator

Vibrators & Erogenous Zones

Vibrators are commonly used on several erogenous zones, and understanding these areas helps you maximize pleasure. Keep in mind that unless a vibrator is designed for anal use—with a flared base and nonporous material—it should not be used anally.

For more information on stimulating different areas, see:

• The Clitoris & How To Stimulate It
• Find The G-Spot & Stimulate It
• Nipple Toys & Nipple Stimulation
• Penis Enhancement Toys
• How To Use Anal Toys
• How To Do Prostate Massage
• Sensual Massage Techniques

Familiarize Yourself With Your Vibrator

Most vibrator manufacturers include instructions on using the toy properly. While many people skip reading them, we highly recommend taking a moment to do so.

Common instructions usually explain:

• How to disengage the travel lock
• How to increase or decrease intensity levels
• How to change vibration patterns

Before use, consider:

• How you plan to hold the vibrator for comfort
• What angle gives the best stimulation
• Keeping lubricant nearby
• Keeping a towel ready for clean-up

Using A Vibrator With A Partner

If you're introducing a vibrator during partnered sex, communication is key. Discuss it beforehand to reduce concerns and explore fun, creative ways to use it together.

• Address concerns: Sex Toy Fears Guide
• Couple’s toy ideas: Couples Sex Toys For Intercourse
• More options: The Best Sex Toys For Couples

Vibrators & Desensitization

Vibrators are healthy to use, but extended use can sometimes lead to temporary desensitization. If this happens, try:

• Taking a short break and stimulating other parts of your body
• Switching to patterned vibration modes
• Returning to your genitals once the sensation resets

To learn more, see: Numb Vulva & Vaginal Twitching

Alternative To Vibrators

If you’re experiencing desensitization or struggling to orgasm with a vibrator, consider air-pulse toys. These stimulate the clitoris using suction-like pulses rather than vibrations.

• Learn more: Air Pulse Sex Toys Guide